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Does anyone know anything about Transgender and crossdressing?

Hello my name is Mari i am from spring hill florida looking for some advice about crossdressing and if indeed i am crossdresser or am i a transgender because i dress up and most times i get very depressed when i have to change out of my clothes can someone please help me with some advice I am a a male to female I am 23 i have never been to a therapist and I am nervous about that is there any other way

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1. From your description, I can't understand if you're FTM or MTF. What do you want advice about? How old are you? Dress how you are comfortable. Try going to a Gender therapist to talk. All Transgender people are usually required to do 3 months of therapy before starting hormones, and most times need a therapist letter of rec for surgery. Talk to a therapist.
2. Being nervous about therapy is pretty normal. Don't stress. Therapists know you'll be nervous, and they know how to help you relax so you can get the most out of the therapy. Gender Therapy is all about discovering who you really are. Here, take a few minutes to read these pages: http://www.t-vox.org/index.php?title=Trans_101 http://www.t-vox.org/index.php?title=I_think_I%27m_transsexual Take a look through the rest of the site as well: http://www.t-vox.org/index.php?title=Main_Page Here are some therapists in Florida. http://www.t-vox.org/index.php?title=Therapists_in_the_South_Atlantic_States#Florida
3. been there done that seriously, the best thing you can do is speak to a gender therapist, who will help you decide what is best for you link to gender therapists http://www.drbecky.com/therapists.html
4. Follow the link that Punk Rock gave you. A therapist will help you sort out your feels and where you want to take them. If you are transsexual, you will eventually need to see a gender therapist to transition.
5. first off a crossdresser IS a transgender. That is the definition of the term. Gay Inc. and some transvestites assimilated everyone else like it or not into their issue. For most transgenders it can often get that way. That issue is what brings many of them to live full time. Have you felt this way since childhood? If this a lifetime thing or did it start at puberty. A person that is born with transsexuality experiences this all of their lives whereas a transgender does from puberty or later on. If this has been with you since childhood then you should see a gender trained therapist for a quality diagnosis. Sharon