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What can I do to stop crossdressing as a girl because i want to get married to a girl?

I've been doing a lot of wacky and crazy stuffs a lot lately because of the lack of a relationship. I've never acted crazily like this before until i hit pubery at the age of 14 years old. I had trouble of getting a date and finding girlfriends, I could never land myself a date with a girl since the age of 14 and now I am 19 years old and never dated. I started doing crazy things like crossdressing at the age of 16 years old, I would wear my mother's and little sister's dresses and i actually fitted into my little sister's dresses because i am really skinny. Then when i hit 18 years old my crossdressing activities gained me a interest in girl's shoes like high heels and I started wearing them around my room with the two pairs of heels i bought with my graduation money. My mother and father has been disappointed by the activity when they finded and I explained to them that it was the fact of not having a girlfriend or a wife or someone to be in a relationship with, It took me 3 months since August 2009 to explain to them that i am actually straight orientated. They've promised me two days ago because I'm starting college in a week that after I finish college, Because I am a Vietnamese- American citizen that they will ask a relative in Vietnam to find me a Vietnamese Girl to marry me and be my wife and after marrying her I would bring her to the states to live with me. They said that the girl will stay with me after she comes to the states. So, how do i stop doing these abnormal things that i am doing right now ?? Does anyone know anyway or anything that can help me to stop doing crossdressing ?? I've finded out that i only do crossdressing because i get sexual thrill and because I don't have a girlfriend. Can anyone please help me out ?? I'm begging for your help because I want to stop doing this before I get married.

Public Comments

1. Become an hero
2. stop trying to impress men and become one!
3. jacking off gives a sexual thrill that could replace crossdressing. try jerking it son.
4. Wear men's clothes.
5. Good Luck. you are going to need it.
6. Get laid. Also an hero.
7. Jeez, okay. Consider the fact that you have to make a choice between your wife and cross dressing. Your wife should come before your cross dressing. Maybe you could do it when she's at work? But if you're right and you're not sexually stimulated by it and are only doing it because you're not in a relationship, the thought of being married and your wife should curb it. When you are married, it maybe easier to quit because then you can see and be with her. Hope it helps!
8. That is very normal to be straight and crossdress. you have to to let your wife know that it turns you on but that you are straight and if she does not like it well then try to stop. or try out new things with her that make you turned on
9. You just got to put down the dresses and the high heels and say enough is enough. you were born as a man, not a woman. there was a reason for that. start by cleaning out your closet and going shopping in the MENS DEPARTMENT. and looking at other men to get ideas on what you should do. buy some sneakers, and socialize with the men around you and get inside there head. you'll eventually learn. hope this helped.
10. First, you shouldn't have to change "who" or "what" you are just because you are going to marry a person. If you stop then you need to stop for yourself, because if not it likely will come up again. I would ask myself why I am stopping. Again, it can't be for your bride-to-be, your parents or anyone else, because it is your life and it was your decision to start doing it. You started it, and if you want to stop then just stop. No one can tell you what to do. So, if it is so unimportant to you then it will be easy to stop. If it is not easy to stop then maybe it is just who you are and you need to accept that fact, along with your parents. You know yourself better than any number of strangers on here, and I think that only you can make this decision.
11. Stop beein gay You should of never done this in the first but it wont go away because you gay now thats who you are im sorry to tell you this but its the turth so be gay that who you are be gay is cool ok
12. Um, I don't know if ur really gay or a transy, but it seems more like ur doing it because you're lonely. That should stop once you get aquainted with the girl, or fall in love. Not that that's even POSSIBLE now, seeing as ur seeking an arranged marriage. See, ur cross-dressing seems to be an extreme form of mastur- I won't finish the word. If you were a transgender, you'd probably want to dress up as a girl BEFORE puberty. And, it seems unlikely to me that ur gay. If you are still attracted to women, and no woman was around, you tried to fill that hole by dressing as one. Talk to a tharapist. He/She'll work with you to get you attracted to your new wife.
13. Maybe you should start seeing a professional for some advice. Therepists offer a comfortable atmosphere and they can figure out the root of why you do this. Once you know the reason, it becomes easier to solve the problem. Also, having sex with a woman or masturbation will probably help too.
14. - Ok first issue, your crossdressing. There are indeed in history some straight guys who are into crossdressing, but I'd say they are really really few. Are you sure it is your case? Really? I'm asking you that, not to discriminate, but because if you're going to marry a girl it would be very important to know if you're more into men or women. Or both. Don't you feel any sexually aroused by men? Don't have any fantasies? How do you feel about men and women? Please be honest to yourself, it is very important. - About the marriage. Sorry again, I know it concerns your country's traditions and everything, but HOW COME are your parents going to IMPORT a girl to marry you? And HOW COME are you going to marry her without even knowing? You have a very important opportunity right now, to choose a life for yourself or to do what your family expect you to do. It is a crucial moment, so please think twice. As soon as you have this poor girl imported, there's no coming back. I know you're very young, and you're probably not able to afford your own expenses, but what if you try to live with your parents a little longer, discretely, while you look for a job and another place to live? So you can be yourself, and live your sexuality the way it is. I know it's probably not the easiest decision to make, but the right thing to do rarely is the easy one. Oh, yes, and I do support what other people said above: go look for professional assistance, hurry. Stop crossdressing is not a solution, finding out who you are is.