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How can i get my parents to accept my crossdressing as who i am ?

I'm an 19 year old asian male and i am a crossdresser and my parents does not accept me as a crossdresser, they are homophobics. I mean i am 100 straight and i love girls but i just love girls because they are soft and comfortable and the best part is the shoes are amazing. They say they will die if i become a crossdresser but i already am a crossdresser, i feel unhappy wearing mens clothing and i feel good in ladies clothing. How can i get them to accept me as a crossdresser ?? I wear this sometimes but i'm planning to buy more women's clothes like dresses and more heels. I feel happy wearing these clothes. http://i830.photobucket.com/albums/zz226/crossdressernguyen/crossdress1.jpg http://i830.photobucket.com/albums/zz226/crossdressernguyen/shoes1.jpg

Public Comments

1. You's a freak.
2. Yaahhh...sure.... what a lie?
3. i'm sorry to tell you this but, your gay. like it or not!! you are. because no girl will like you if you wear that, and if they do than their drunk or secretly a boy!
4. Watch the movie Bad Education you'll probably like it! and you should point out to your parents that when women wear jeans and baggy shirts and flip flops, they're cross dressing too. its not a big deal/
5. im sorry, but there is nothing that can cure homophobia, you just have to give them time to adapt, and if they don't adapt don't worry, whatever makes you comfortable should be number 1 priority
6. Move out if you are still living at home THEN do whatever you want.
7. Damn
8. to scary. have you seen the movie silence of the lambs. the bad guy dress like a girl and stuck his di*k underneath his legs and looks like a lady in front of the camera, well sorry but i can see you doing this. it's fuck*ed up and god made you a boy not a girl. be your self. LGBT are freaks. look at boy george or brad pitt. boys should go and date a women and a women should date a man. god made us what we are.
9. James, to answer your question... "You can't." Rejection is a part of life. As long as you're alive, you won't be accepted by everyone. First and foremost, if you're going to be a crossdresser make sure you aren't offending that gender by wearing tacky clothing. Shirt? No. Skirt? No. Stockings? Hell NO. Shoes? Not too bad. If you feel happy wearing female attire then, wear it. Just let it be PRESENTABLE and not embarrassing to your family and other people who care about you.
10. If you want to be a cross dresser then go right ahead,if your parents can't accept you for who you are and the way you want to dress, well to me they would not be my parents,If they can't accept you then all I can say is leave home and tell them you won't come back until they accept you for who you are and the way you dress,tell them I am a cross dresser and i'm proud,hopefully i helped if not i really don't know what else to tell you,you only get one mom and dad,If they were my parents that is what i would do and tell them,they can't accept me for being a cross dresser then i don't need them...
11. just be who you are sexual identity and sexual prefrence are two very diffrent things. give your parents time to accept this. best of luck
12. Ummm..yea i think you are gay and you are in denial. You don't even feel comfortable in men's clothes and you love to wear heels. You are happiest when you are in drag, which means you don't even like your male persona. You can't expect your parents just to accept it. They need time to adjust, that is a big blow to them. It will take time. And it only makes it even more difficult for them because you are claiming to be straight (i think this is the beginning of your coming out as gay). Your parents are wondering what kind of "weird people" will you be exposing them to. At least if you are gay they kinda know what to expect. They are practically waiting for the day when you say that you are gay and probably prefers it.
13. How to get them to accept you? Maybe print this out and mail it to them? I'll tell you about a cross dresser I knew. He was married so obviously straight. He dressed when his wife wasn't around. The problem if it was a problem, came later because his son saw him. His son was 17. However the son liked it and cross dressed too. So they were storing their clothes in the son's apartment. A heartwarming story eh? His wife was a loaf or two short since I knew her.
14. Honestly, they probably wont ever fully accept you. But if you give them time and if you show them that your still the same person, they will eventually learn to live with it and communicate with you again, Good luck! P.S. I love your shoes in that picture! where did you get them?