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Any idea on how to tell your parents your a transgender?

I am a 16 MTF Transgender. My parents would strongly disapprove of me being a TG, however i can not take being a male where i don't have to be. I wear girls clothing but I borrow it from my girl friend. Any idea would be appreciated. Thank you much ^_^ -Sterling Rayne (MTF)

Public Comments

1. If it makes you happy, it cant be that bad. do what you want, if your sure its what you want. why live a lie, when you could be happy right ?
2. It is very possible that you have a male body and a female hard-wired brain. It happens, usually about 6 weeks after conception, and is more common than people think. That's where the saying comes from: "a woman trapped in a man's body". If you like, you can research how the brain develops and the surge of testosterone needed at the 6 week point to make the brain in the male pattern. Now, your aim is to have those around you, including your parents, accept that this is what happened to you. The best way to get them to accept your "condition" is through education. It is important for them to know that it was not your choice to be born like this. The science behind what happened to you before birth should lead to better understanding, and that can lead to better acceptance. Everyone knows how important it is to gain a parent's approval. Other suggestions will undoubtedly tell you that it is their problem, not yours, and ignore them, but family harmony is also important. You can choose your friends, but not your relatives. Good luck.