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How do i know if i am Transgender?

since i was 3 i would never wear girls clothes or play with girl toys and i hated the color pink and purple. and when i was about 5 and i started school i started wanting to become a boy. and when i think of the question do i feel like a boy trapped in a girls body i get confused since i don't feel anything really a just know that i want to be a boy

Public Comments

1. Be what you want to be- these definitions aren't really specific. If you want to be a boy, then you are transgender, simple as that.
2. Well if you want to be a boy then you might decide when you are older to make the change. It's a big choice and you should definitely think long and hard about it, but if you know it's EXACTLY what you want then go for it! It's a long and hard road but i support you. READ ME http://flowtv.org/2005/11/feature-when-i-grow-up-i-want-to-be-a-boy-transgenerations-meditation-on-the-real/
3. Don't worry too much about labels. I know it might seem important to pinpoint exactly who and what you are, but trust me, it's not. I've gone through a lot. Bisexual, lesbian, pansexual, transman, and eventually settling on genderqueer transman. It'll take time to figure stuff out, but it's not the most important thing. What's most important is doing what makes you feel most comfortable. Dress with that makes you comfy, use what pronouns you feel safe with, use whatever name you like, and act how YOU are. If you want to be a boy, then try it out. See how it feels. If you like, great, keep doing it and if not, just keep trying to figure out what will make you happiest. :] This blog might help you, it has a lot of resources and he gets asked a lot of questions about trans issues. You can also ask him anything, since he's very good with this stuff. http://xxboy.tumblr.com/trans101
4. if you want to live a life as a male then yes you are transgendered. If you don't like your female features on your body and would rather have a male body parts and everything else then yes you are.
5. Maybe you should speak with a gender therapist? http://www.DrBecky.com/therapists.html They can help you sort things out.