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Is it possible to be unsure if you're a transgender?

I am 20 now, posted a few times in this column, and i'm currently debating many things. I like to think that i am WAYY more feminine than I am masculine, and feel very out of place in masculine situations like football (i can participate as a joke you know,) or wearing tuxedos or masculine clothing (like polos....ICK.) I have always liked softer more feminine looking things, like for example I have some harajuku lovers feminine hoodie wear it all the time and i love it! but most people think i'm way abnormal. but it's not their decision to decide. most of my life like when i was a kid i always thought i was born a girl and somehow wasn't anymore. now i'm confused. as hell. sometimes i wonder if i am transgender, and i think no matter how strong i am on that conclusion society has a manipulative eye that wraps itself around me and constantly nags at my shoulder telling me it's wrong. n omatter how decided i am. my question to you is, have you gone throuh this experience? i'm so confused. i hate my hair. i want women's hair. no more body hair. smooth legs. feminine features. and...my hands are smaller than some girl's hands i know--delicate looking, long thin fingres, and my jaw is def. feimine. not chizzled, (sp), and just looks girly. sooo?>

Public Comments

1. Only you can answer that, deep down you should know. Google "The Transgender Support Zone". A very nice lady named Deedee Casto owns and operates it, she can help you figure out where you are, but the answer lies in you.
2. Ricky is correct only you can answer that question. what I suggest however is to start doing your own research, while contacting a therapist who's familiar with gender related issues such as Dr Becky http://www.drbecky.com/therapists.html or visiting any of the following links http://www.kindredspiritlakeside.homestead.com/resources.html http://tsroadmap.com http://www.susans.org/Sex_Reassignment_Surgery/ http://www.t-vox.org otherwise good luck